There are older people who’ve lost a partner who never took a chance on having sex ‘their way’ and they now want to try something different than what they had.I live in a retirement community and hear this a lot.” In essence, we can all begin to rediscover ourselves as sexual beings.
Then there’s the deeper level of truth: that men actually want a woman’s openness and feminine energy more than sex.
The men who don’t see this level of truth won’t agree to this. In a casual sex situation; men don’t care if you’re open to them or not – they are only there for the sex.
Now, as the adult child of an aging parent you may find the tables have turned, and it’s your turn to have “the talk.” Sure, it’s hard. Besides, if he also knows the rule, he’ll make an effort to ask questions and give her ample opportunity to talk, too. For as many as 25 percent of 65-year-old men, however, erectile dysfunction is a regular problem, according to the National Institutes of Health.
(Carrying quarters is still a good idea for toll plazas and parking meters, however.) Make sure your parent doesn’t leave the house without a fully charged cell phone – but remind Dad to avoid using the phone to check on sports scores, grandchildren or the latest cool apps. (The same goes for Dad – tiny Speedos are an absolute “no-no” if he takes a lady friend to the beach or pool! If mom wants to look sexy for her date, a turtleneck probably isn’t a good idea either, but neither is a plunging neckline that shows way too much cleavage. But remind her of the one rule of dating that has persisted even since she was a teenager: Let your date do the talking.
To start, I want to say that there are men who are single-minded and desperate – that’s a rule in our world.
And I believe these desperate men definitely will push you for sex just to get the sex itself, because they’re desperate for an ejaculation, or for validation, to feel good about their existence, or to just milk a woman for whatever he can get.In her initial conversations and meetings with an Internet date, ask your mother to use just her cell phone (her home phone can easily be tracked to her home address) and to meet him in a public place. These 7 pieces of advice should serve as a starting point for the talk, or better yet, an ongoing dialogue with your parent.Whether your parent is alone for the first time in many years or has been on her own for a while now, her desire to look for love is certainly understandable. Having “the sex talk” with your parents is admittedly a tricky proposition.By no means did I intend to be patronizing by offering these important tips.The goal was to make sure that mature adults who are re-entering the dating scene — especially if it’s been a long time — understand that the so-called “scene” has dramatically changed over the last decade.The thought of our parents having sex clearly (according to the blog feedback) seems disturbing to many, but it’s happening — and that’s a good thing — so we need to make sure that our parents and grandparents understand some of the ramifications of the “new” dating scene to ensure they practice safe sex and are careful about their choices.